From the March 2010 issue of AA Grapevine:

Gimme Shelter

After living rurally for six years with my two daughters, it became necessary for me to move back to Christchurch, New Zealand. I had eight weeks to prepare for moving and I looked at many homes. They far exceeded what I could afford. My past behavior, when looking for property, was to rent what I wanted and get the nicest home, despite the burden it would cause the family financially. This time my thoughts had changed. I could not afford to rent anything that I had viewed so far. Doing so would take the food from our bellies, clothing from our backs and heat from our bodies during the bitter winter months: my thoughtless actions would cripple the family.

Bonus story from March 2010: Russian Roulette

Story of the Day: What Meeting Are You Going to Tomorrow?

When the sheriff came to help my terrified wife grab a few of her belongings from our house, so she could leave me, I was passed out in a drunken stupor on the bed. That day I had drunk more than I had in the decade we'd been together. I turned into an insane, infantile, terrorizing, and abusive beast that last day of drinking. I'm sure I had come close before but I was in rare form that day. It culminated with me trying to wrench a set of car keys out of her hand. She was gripping them too tightly for my liking, so I bit her arm with vigor. She screamed and called for the police, and ... Read more >

Step Three:

THERE are a lot of angles to this program," the guy said after the meeting. That rang a bell with me. I knew he had been a professional thief while drinking, and I acknowledged the fact that I had probably been a more successful crook in the old days, in terms of the take, than he ever had. I could spare him a quarter that day, bus fare to the employment office. He didn't ask for it. Read more >

Tradition Three:

One thing puzzles me," remarked Josh, our group's six-weeks-sober member, responding to the leader's request for a discussion topic. "Well, a lot of things puzzle me, but right now it's what you just read from the Preamble, and it's in the Traditions: 'The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking.' What if someone comes into AA who doesn't desire to stop drinking?" Read more >