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Published October 2011.

Web Exclusive: Considering Crosstalk

An oldtimer reflects on the changing perceptions of crosstalk over the decades

"Back then, crosstalk meant two people talking back and forth."

When I came into AA 29 years ago, crosstalk was wisely not allowed at meetings. However, it meant something different then than it does today. Back then, crosstalk meant two people talking back and forth, instead of each person getting a turn to speak uninterrupted. No one could even interject a comment during someone else's share. "No crosstalk" also meant not criticizing what another person said, not telling someone what to do about their problems, and not analyzing anyone else's psyche or situation. All good things to avoid.

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-- Lily Joy


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