I'll Forgive. . .But I'll Never Forget. . .!

I HAVE yet to hear the above phrase uttered without the accompaniment of a toss of the head, a shrug of the shoulder and a very vindictive gleam in the eye. I have had to stop and analyze these words--which used to be a favorite of mine--since I made a certain Twelfth Step call and the gal, out of the depths of her misery, muttered these scathing words about her ex-husband.