Whose Willpower?

WHY are you always loaded? Have you got no spine? Try to use a little willpower or you will end on skid row. Why do you drink until you pass out, when it is important to you to stay sober? Every alky knows those sentences and they are bitter to hear. Finally, the unfortunate victim of the well-meaning will-to-help comes to believe that he or she is a spineless mollusc.