What's for You Won't Go By You!

I HAD TROUBLE believing it the first time I heard it, but my sponsor, a blind Scotsman who looks, speaks, and philosophizes like a leprechaun, never stopped reminding me: "What's for you won't go by you." It was especially hard to believe at those times when I wanted to change everything around me and put myself a thousand miles from my current misery. But little by little, day by day, I have come to believe that simple philosophy, and it has changed my life.