It's All Your Fault!

I CAME INTO AA reluctantly, with real reservations, especially in emotional areas of my life. When I heard that even righteous indignation was something alcoholics could not afford to indulge in, I felt not only puzzled but put-upon by the very group that I had hoped could help me. After all, what was I supposed to do about the anger that others "made" me feel? What was I to do when others misused me? How could I dispense with the anger that was so often "forced" upon me by the actions of others?