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September 1997

The Fire Has Gone Out

Step 9 - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

I didn't have to be told that in the years of my drinking I damaged those closest to me. My wife's tears and the pain on my children's faces as I erupted again and again in alcoholic rage played a large part in bringing me to crisis and then into recovery. I knew I needed to make amends to them. I wanted to put my involvement with my family on a healthy, functioning, and mutually-rewarding basis. There was work to be done, and lots of it.

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