The need to identify
October 2021 | Cooperation With Professionals (CPC) | What's On Your Mind?

The need to identify

A non-binary member shares some thoughts about fitting in, feeling safe, sponsorship and unity

I got sober in November of 2015. The following April I started on my Fourth Step. It seemed simple enough, yet when summer came I hit a brick wall. Not just in my writing or recovery, but in life as well. I didn’t know what was happening to me. I began to seek answers about how I felt. That summer I came out as transgender. I identify as non-binary, transgender and pansexual. 


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