When You Can’t Say No
September 2022 | Young & Sober | On the Cover

When You Can’t Say No

A sponsor shares what he learned about relationships when he was a young newcomer

A new sponsee of mine once told me that he’d heard that there was some kind of a ban on sex or relationships in early sobriety and that he didn’t think he could do that. Maybe it was my pride that kept me from saying, “Yeah, I couldn’t do that either.”


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